There are those moments in your life where you are faced with a decision. A decision that will decide your fate. Shrink from the moment and regret it forever. Rise to the occasion and your life will never be the same.
Last night, I moved all in.
Looking back on my life, I wonder where I'd be today had I made different decisions. My first job after college took me to Lincoln, Nebraska. At the time, I had a job offer to work for ESPN (yes, Pauly isn't the first to get the call from the Worldwide Leader!). It was a chance to get on the path to my dream job.
I turned it down.
For a time, I wondered if I had made the wrong decision. I put all I had on the line and moved halfway across the country to work an overnight shift in a town in which I knew absolutely no one. It was hard. But I got lucky. Perhaps I pulled a four-outer on the river. I was quickly promoted and got a nice raise.
When it was time to move on, I had two very tempting offers. One was in the Pacific Northwest, Spokane to be exact. The other was in a small South Carolina town that I didn't even know existed. The Spokane job offer was for more money, a better shift and a more prestigious position.
I turned it down.
I never looked back to wonder if I made the wrong decision. I landed in G-Vegas and made the best friends I've ever had. And I got lucky. Perhaps I drew out again. After less than two weeks on the job, I was promoted. I worked side-by-side with Mrs. Otis for three years. I never wanted to leave.
But I had to. And out of the blue, I got a call to move to Knox-Vegas. It was a huge opportunity for me. Lots more money and a chance to take a big step professionaly. I had to take it.
It wasn't all I had dreamed of, but I was still close enough to get back to G-Vegas regularly. And then I got lucky. This was more like hitting the one-outer for the straight flush to beat four of a kind. A station down in little Lafayette, Louisiana needed a news director and they wanted me.
I couldn't turn it down.
That was more than three years ago. For the first two and a half years, I focused on my job. I focused on my job to the exclusion of anything else. And I wasn't happy. Let me amend that... I wasn't depressed, but I wasn't exactly walking on air.
Then I got lucky. This was more like holding a losing hand but having your opponent accidentally muck. That's the kind of luck I'm talking about here. It's like hitting the bad beat jackpot.
With some encouragement from BG, I dove into the dating world. The first woman I met was Lady Luck. To say I was nervous would be an understatement. She was gorgeous and funny. She laughed at my jokes and loved baseball and movies.
I fell in love. And I never looked back.
Last night, I put all my chips in the middle. And I won.
Lady Luck will soon become Mrs. Luckbox. And I couldn't be happier.
Congrats on the promotion.
Posted by: Ten Mile at April 29, 2007 1:08 PMCongrats! And yes... nice ctach, sir!
Posted by: Pauly at April 29, 2007 1:09 PMCongrats sir!
Posted by: AlCantHang at April 29, 2007 1:47 PMCongratulations!
Posted by: BSN at April 29, 2007 1:59 PMNice hand, Luckbox!! VERY well played!
Posted by: change100 at April 29, 2007 2:20 PMCongratulations you two!!!
Posted by: April at April 29, 2007 2:46 PMMoves allin with air, catches again. You are SUCH a freaking luckbox.
I keed, I keed. Congratulations!
Posted by: F-Train at April 29, 2007 3:45 PMNice raise.
Posted by: TripJax at April 29, 2007 4:12 PMI'm a little teared up... I'm so freakin' happy for you! Many, many heartfelt congratulations!!!
Posted by: Kym at April 29, 2007 4:16 PMGood one!
Posted by: Mr Subliminal at April 29, 2007 4:22 PMNo poker metaphors necessary - just a sincere congratulations. You should totally get married up in York so I don't have to buy a plane ticket to attend...
Posted by: BG at April 29, 2007 4:25 PMCongratulations, my man!
I bet that when you got down on one knee you were still taller than her weren't you, you lanky bastard. I shall celebrate by getting knocked out of the bracelet race early and toasting to you two until I have to start a new bottle of whatever I end up going with this fine evening.
Posted by: Bobby Bracelet at April 29, 2007 5:03 PMA mighty fine move sir, congrats. G-rob & Otis told me on Friday - I wasn't surprised at all. :)
Posted by: BadBlood at April 29, 2007 5:14 PMwow - congratulations CJ!!!
Posted by: iggy at April 29, 2007 6:29 PMLady Luck, indeed. She, too, is very, very lucky to have found a guy as great as you. I am so happy that you have found what you were looking for. Congratulations!
Posted by: Mrs. Otis at April 29, 2007 7:20 PMGrats on taking the next step! I wish you and yours many many happy years together!
Posted by: Chipper at April 29, 2007 8:03 PMa most heartfelt congratulations to you both!
Posted by: Katitude at April 29, 2007 8:18 PMCongrats, bro.
You should register at Full Tilt.
I'm actually considering remarrying soon just to build my bankroll a bit.
congratulations!
Posted by: jjok at April 29, 2007 8:54 PMluckbox in life too. congrats.
Posted by: on_thg at April 29, 2007 9:34 PMAllow me to add to the growing list of congrats.
Congrats!
Posted by: DrChako at April 29, 2007 10:20 PMI found mine almost 19 years ago, and, knowing where we are right now, I wouldn't change anything in my life before or since. Congratulations at finding your soulmate.
Posted by: ToddCommish at April 30, 2007 2:35 AMcongrats!
Posted by: donkeypuncher at April 30, 2007 6:06 AMCongrats CJ!!!
Do I send a Kentucky Derby trifecta bet as a wedding gift?
Posted by: drizztdj at April 30, 2007 7:45 AMCongrats!!
Posted by: Wwonka at April 30, 2007 8:27 AMCongrats to you and Lady Luck, CJ!
Solid proof that poker bloggers always marry up!
Posted by: Pokerwolf at April 30, 2007 8:59 AMCongrats!!!
Posted by: Carson at April 30, 2007 9:18 AMCongrats, CJ!
Posted by: chad at April 30, 2007 9:44 AMWay to go! Congrats to you both!
Posted by: Easycure at April 30, 2007 9:46 AMCongrats!!!
Posted by: Shawn at April 30, 2007 10:44 AMWtg man. Marrying up is what it's all about. Congratz.
Posted by: Hammer Player a.k.a. Hoyazo at April 30, 2007 10:58 AMCongratulations, CJ.
Posted by: Jordan from HighOnPoker at April 30, 2007 11:15 AMYou work fast, young Jedi.
And by the looks of it I'd say you didn't propose on the spur of the moment during your lunch break with no ring while she had bedhead and wore ripped up jogging pants. You might be romantic but I have a good story. CONGRATS!
Congrats, CJ!
Posted by: WindBreak247 at April 30, 2007 11:40 AMLove is so rigged.
Congratulations to you both.
Posted by: nopapes at April 30, 2007 12:38 PMCongratulations and beautiful ring!!
Posted by: Carmen at April 30, 2007 1:28 PMCongratulations! Marriage is awesome!
Posted by: pokertart at April 30, 2007 1:45 PMCongrats, CJ!
Posted by: Maigrey at May 1, 2007 8:39 AMcongrats man.....you are a luck box
Posted by: The Mark at May 1, 2007 11:48 AMCongrats dude... i've been reading your stuff for quite some time, matter of fact this was the first one i found when i started reading poker blogs...
How about posting some more pics of the lucky lady... ;)
Posted by: Mj at May 1, 2007 3:24 PMYou really ARE a luckbox!!! Way to go CJ, congrats.
Posted by: 23skidoo at May 2, 2007 4:12 PM